准岳母不同意我们在一起，求巧解办法！！

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我和女朋友一起快4年了，但是第一次去她家的时候，准岳母不同意我们的事。
　　 又过了2年的现在，准岳母在一次给我打电话的时候，我说了 一句鲁莽的话，我是这样在电话里说了 ： “您就同意了我们的事吧，到底干不干！”，就这样 说错了一句话，她就一直坚定不同意我们的事。然后她的亲戚就给我们出点子，说在短时间内，让我和女朋友去努力化解准岳母对我的尴尬，也可以说是矛盾吧！当务之急，该怎么化解我和她母亲的这些矛盾啊！求过来人指点迷津！~~特别鸣谢~！
　　
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